Magnetically Secure
The self-paced 10-week transformation for ambitious women ready to attract and build a heart-stopping partnership with your emotionally available, masculine power partner
You're not here for just any relationship...you're ready for your life partner.
The self-paced 10 week course for ambitious, powerhouse women who are ready to heal the subconscious blocks to attract and build a heart-stopping, panty dropping , “omg how is this my life” partnership with your emotionally available, masculine POWER PARTNER!
Magnetic Queen
The 4-month group coaching mastermind for ambitious, powerhouse women where we heal the subconscious blocks to attract and build a heart-stopping, panty dropping, “omg how is this my life” partnership with your emotionally available, masculine POWER PARTNER!
Welcome Home, Queen
You've built an extraordinary life. Your career is locked in, your bank account is solid, and you've cultivated friendships and hobbies that light you up. You're fit, you're radiant, you're a catch and you absolutely know it.
So if you're this incredible woman, then why does finding your person feel so elusive?
You attract men who pursue you consistently, plan thoughtful dates, and seem genuinely interested... but somehow they're not the ones who make your heart race on every level.
The men you're actually excited about seem to fade right when things could get real.
You know you deserve a partnership that matches the extraordinary life you've built, but you're left wondering: "What's the missing piece?"
Here's What's Really Happening
Your dating struggles have nothing to do with not being feminine enough or having the "wrong" energy.
It has everything to do with your subconscious mind.
Your subconscious runs 95% of who you attract, how you respond, and what feels "safe" in love. Right now, it's running an outdated program that equates healthy love with being unsafe.
This invisible system was programmed before age 8 and reinforced by every dating disappointment since.
Your nervous system learned that:
Deep connection equals vulnerability, and vulnerability equals risk
Asking for what you need might lead to disappointment
Being your full, radiant self might be "too much"
These protective patterns are blocking the love you want.
What's Missing Isn't More Dating Strategies
It's the safety to have a powerhouse-type love.
You need a regulated nervous system and a reprogrammed subconscious that feels safe to be your real, raw, radiant self with a secure, masculine man.
When you heal at the root level, everything shifts:
You naturally share your authentic emotions because you finally feel safe being seen.
You express your needs clearly, knowing the right man celebrates your clarity.
You embody the unshakeable confidence that draws quality men like a magnet.
Your energy becomes the force that makes masculine men feel like they've found their perfect match.
Hi, I’m Shaina,
I’m a hypnotist that’s transformed over 400 women in 3 years by using advanced subconscious healing methods to shift their identity to magnetic women who are a perfect match for masculine, secure men.
For 15 years I struggled with dating. Every guy I gave my heart to, loved on me, texted me daily, told me I was beautiful, planned great dates and said, “wow, you’re incredible” but after months of dating, I felt the SHIFT.
Guys got “really busy with work” leaving no time for us to have date nights.
I’d hear, “I want to take things extra slow” even though we’d been dating for 5 months!
And even worse, I heard after 7 months of dating, “hey, I’m not ready for commitment”
I knew I was a prize. I loved myself. I was fit, hot, happy, and thought I had it all.
But I couldn’t figure out why every guy I dated didn’t want to commit to me for the long run.
After years of doing therapy, spending thousands on coaching and courses, reading every relationship book on amazon, I was still struggling to meet a man that actually valued me.
Until a friend recommended I hire a hypnotherapist to shift my subconscious patterns around love.
Everything changed once I completed subconscious healing work.
I realized my…
Overthinking was killing the vibe. Even if he texted daily and made plans, I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop. I was scanning for signs he’d leave, instead of letting myself feel chosen.
I was scared to be vulnerable. I kept saying “I’m fine,” even when I wasn’t—because I didn’t feel safe expressing what I truly needed. I thought avoiding hard conversations would keep the peace… but it just created distance.
And I was in proving mode. Bragging about my accomplishments, overusing my charm and beauty, trying to earnlove—when what I really craved was to receive it. But that masculine energy made emotionally available men see me as a buddy, not a woman they could fall for.
Now, after years of completing subconscious healing work, I’m entirely different and all I do is attract secure men who treat me like a Queen.
I’ve been spoiled on 5 star dates, fancy vacations, and receive flowers on tough days just because they wanted to make me smile.
I feel safe to speak my needs and share my tough feelings with ease.
I don’t crash out if I don’t get a text for a few days, I’m detached, calm, and unafraid to sending flirty texts to show interest to keep the passion alive.
And best of all, I can easily walk away if he’s showing signs of being afraid of commitment or just not that into me.
This is why I created this course.
I want you to do the subconscious healing work necessary to become the woman who feels calm and magnetic with a secure, masculine man so that you can effortlessly attract your power partner and have the skills necessary to build a healthy partnership.
Inside Magnetic Secure…
You’ll use my proven subconscious healing process to actually heal the root causes that keep you from attracting and building a healthy partnership with a solid masculine, emotionally available man so at the body and subconscious level your dream love is inevitable.
And when you heal the root causes…
Your magnetism will cause men to text you before you even think to pick up your phone.
Your self-awareness will alert you to signs that he’s not worth your time on the first date, saving you months of heartache and spiral thinking.
You'll know in your bones that the right man is coming, and when he arrives, he'll be everything you've been waiting for.
The reason I know you need a unique type of healing to reprogram your subconscious and nervous system is …
Your subconscious and nervous system control 95% of everything you do.
It’s like an operating system running below the surface—automating your thoughts, habits, behaviors, and emotional reactions.
It was formed before age 8, based on your early experiences and reinforced by all your past failed relationships and dating experiences.
Its job is to keep you alive, safe, and away from pain.
Right now, it equates healthy love as being unsafe because every time you’ve tried to connect within someone, you experienced some level of pain.
And every time you’ve been in an unhealthy dynamic, you’ve maintained some level of safety because it’s what you’re use to.
Currently, your body and subconscious is wired to attract men who are UNHEALTHY because that’s what your subconscious and nervous system thinks is “love” based your lived-experiences.
So because of your lived-experiences, your subconscious..
loves the feeling of giggly tantalizing chemistry because you didn’t have steady love from mom and dad, so you always attract guys who mimic that feeling, but these guys are emotionally unavailable just like dad. (Fear of secure love)
doesn't feel fully worthy of receiving love on a deep level because you didn’t get the love you needed from mom (Fear of vulnerability and intimacy)
fears being rejected once you ask for consistent connection or your deepest needs for constant attention because your ex broke up with you as soon as you shared your needs. (fear of rejection)
thinks showing your emotions is overbearing for a man because your ex pulled away when you asked him if he was serious about building a future with you. (fear of being emotionally available)
doesn't feel good enough for love again because in the past, your ex said, “I don't think we're compatible” when you tried to build a deeper connection. (fear of being good enough)
This is why..
You effortlessly let him pursue you, but the moment he gets busy or shifts his attention you question, “Did I do something wrong?
You’re not checking your phone all day, but you hate that your mind spirals. So when he does reach out, your energy is nervous and he can tell based on how you respond to his messages.
Which makes him pull back even more.
You set high standards, but underneath them is a fear of being disappointed again, so you unconsciously write men off for superficial reasons to avoid deeper intimacy.
You think you’re being discerning… but you’re actually guarded. And that guardedness? It’s repelling the very love you say you’re ready for.
You think you're being “chill” by not saying how you really feel, but that emotional silence is killing your chances of building true connection.
Men don’t fall in love with a curated version of you. They fall in love with the woman who’s bold enough to be seen.
You’re waiting for a man to make you feel chosen before you let your full heart out… but the right man can’t attach to you if he can’t feel you.
You want lifelong love, but you’re showing up like someone protecting herself from a two-week situationship.
You’re doing “all the right things” — dating apps, therapy, even feminine energy work — but your subconscious identity still says, “love is hard,” “men aren’t consistent,” or “I always get rejected.”
So you keep attracting experiences that reflect exactly that — no matter how soft your voice is or how magnetic your photos look.
Your subconscious and nervous system will keep you in these repeated patterns until you do the deeper-level, science backed therapy and transformative work necessary to release, rewire and reform what you deem as safe in love.
When the subconscious isn’t healed, you’ll go back to your old patterns EVERY TIME.
This is why, inside Magnetically Secure we FIRST heal at the ROOT of your subconscious….
THEN you’ll master the external actions, habits, behaviors and skills necessary so build a healthy relationship with a masculine, provider-type man.
What’s Inside Magnetically Secure?
Module 1: Rewire
The Magnetic Queen Identity
Discover who you’ve been subconsciously being in love and upgrade your identity to become a secure, magnetic woman who inspires masculine pursuit. You’ll use my proven subconscious healing process to shift your love blocks in minutes, using hypnotherapy, somatic-based methods that release trauma and emotions from the body, and then wire in the beliefs, thoughts, and feelings that make you magnetic.
This allows you to date like a calm, secure, empowered woman who only attracts healthy masculine men and feels calm in the dating process.
BONUS: Worthiness & Self-Trust
Release proving energy and the fear of rejection, and finally feel like you're already enough to receive love, without hustling or shrinking.
Module 2: Regulate
From Anxious/Avoidant to Secure
Uncover how dating activates your survival response and how to shift from spiraling to safety, so you don’t sabotage good connections or stay stuck in toxic ones.
Trigger Tracker & Emotional Audit
Use these tools to decode your emotional patterns, regulate in real time, and lead yourself back into peace and power.
Somatic & Energetic Regulation Tools
Build your “Calm-Down Kit” with practices that help you stay grounded, soft, and emotionally available, even when things feel uncertain.
This module allows you to date as a regulated QUEEN. You’ll need to master nervous system regulation to build a healthy partnership because secure men commit to women who can regulate their emotions and triggers like a pro.
Module 3: Radiate
Feminine Pleasure & Presence
Fully embody your feminine energy in dating and in all aspects of your life so activate the energy of being pursued, adored, and chosen through a sensual, somatic practice designed to shift your vibe from “doing” to “deserving.”
The Art of Vulnerability
Master how to express real emotions in micro-moments that inspire masculine pursuit and create emotional intimacy.
Feminine Confidence & Receptivity
Feel powerful and radiant while being soft and open. Learn how to receive compliments, help, and love without guilt, and how to make space for him to lead.
Module 4: Relate
Understanding Men
Master how masculine men bond emotionally, why they pull away, and how to inspire consistent pursuit without chasing or over-functioning.
Masculine vs. Avoidant Men
Spot the difference between secure and emotionally unavailable men — fast — so you don’t get attached to potential.
Masculine Psychology Cheat Sheet
Become what makes a man feel inspired, appreciated, and safe to lead. Use this to respond with feminine power in every phase of connection.
Questions to Assess for Alignment in Dating
Get powerful conversation starters that reveal whether a man is emotionally available, aligned, and ready, without interrogating or over-explaining.
Stages of Partnership
Master the natural flow of a secure relationship – from the first date to exclusivity – so you stop self-sabotaging or settling too soon.
What Healthy Love Feels Like
Uncover what real partnership looks and feels like, so you can recognize it, receive it, and sustain it.
Module 5: Dating For Success
Amplifying Your Magnetic Energy
Your energy is what makes or breaks who you attract and how much fun you have while dating. Master the skill of being in your magnetic feminine energy throughout the dating process so as you swipe on Bumble or hit the singles events, men notice and are drawn to you like bees are to honey.
Date like a Pro
Included is a 80+ page dating tool kit to support your efforts to meet men online, in the wild, and through communities. You have all the strategy necessary to have fun on dates, keep your head held high and proven actions to take to meet your man or go from single to exclusive with ease.
Exclusive Bonuses!!
2 Hypnotic Affirmation Meditations: Reprogram your subconscious to solidify new beliefs, making it easier to attract the love you want.
Magnetic Communication Guide: Learn the art of feminine communication with 150 scripts, plus essential tips to navigate tough feelings and communicate your needs.
Once completing Magnetically Secure…..
Your relationship will deepen naturally…
❣️ He invites you to meet his family within three months, saying "They're going to love you"
❣️ He remembers the small details you mention and surprises you with them
❣️ He brings you coffee in bed on Sunday mornings without being asked
❣️ He shows up at your door with flowers "just because I was thinking of you"
Your magnetism will transform completely...
👥 You'll stop obsessively checking your phone because you'll know he's consistently communicating
👥 You'll easily identify red flags within the first two dates, saving months of wasted emotional energy
👥 You'll express your needs directly and watch as he eagerly rises to meet them
👥 You'll feel calm and secure instead of anxious when dating because you'll trust your judgment
Your entire approach to love will shift...
👩🏫 Dating becomes enjoyable rather than draining
👩🏫 You'll wake up excited about your love life instead of worried about it
👩🏫 You'll know in your bones that the right man is coming, and when he arrives, he'll be everything you've been waiting for
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this program for?
This program is for the high-achieving woman who loves her life but feels like her love life just isn’t matching up. You keep meeting men who aren't ready to commit, and you’re ready for something real.
Can I do this if I’m single?
YES! Whether you're single or dating, Magnetically Secure will show you how to attract high-quality men who are ready for commitment.
Can I do this if I’m in a relationship?
Absolutely! You can use the skills you learn to ignite more passion and take your relationship from exclusive to engaged.
Are there live calls?
There are no live calls with this course, if you wish to have live coaching and support, I recommend joining Magnetic Queen, my high-level group program.
How is this different than Magnetic Queen?
Magnetically Secure is a self-paced course that includes the foundational healing methods and skills necessary to have a healthy partnership.
Magnetic queen is a comprehensive, deep dive into shifting your subconscious blocks and becoming the woman who effortlessly attracts and builds a healthy partnership with a high-powered masculine man. Magnetic Queen includes live coaching calls and trainings that are more in depth than Magnetically Secure.
If you want live coaching so you have targeted support to help you do the healing work, plus more in depth in mastering skills necessary for a relationship, Magnetic Queen is the place for you.
If you prefer a self-paced course so you can do the work on your own, yet still achieve success because you’re highly self aware and internally motivated to do the work, then Magentically Secure is a perfect match for you.
Does this include 1:1 coaching?
Yes! You can upgrade to a 1-month coaching package for just $1800 (a $2000 value) and get 4 coaching calls, voice message support, and exclusive VIP materials to fast-track your results.
What’s the format?
This is a self-paced program with 5 modules (including over 12 hours of content). You can spread it over 10 weeks for maximum impact.
How will this help me?
Right now, you're pushing men away without even realizing it. That’s why they come on strong and then disappear. This program will give you the healing tools to transform your subconscious so you feel safe to be in healthy partnership and teach you the exact communication and mindset shifts you need to attract high-quality men, keep their interest, and move from dating to exclusive. You'll understand male psychology, feminine communication, and dating strategies that will transform your love life.
Are there refunds?
Due to the digital nature of the course, there are no refunds.
Core Content Value
Magnetically Secure Core Curriculum: $5,000
Hypnotherapy Recorded Sessions & Methods: $5,000
Magnetic Dating Guide: $127
Magnetic Communication Guide: $297
Total Value: $10,674
But today, you can get Magnetically Secure for only $347!
No More Waiting!
The relationship you’ve been dreaming of is closer than you think. Don’t wait to unlock the keys to becoming the woman he can’t help but commit to.
ONE TIME OFFER
One Month Private Coaching for just $1,800
This is why, inside Magnetic Queen we FIRST heal at the ROOT of your subconscious….THEN we act the external actions, habits, behaviors and skills so you can be the woman who effortlessly attracts your power partner and feels safe to build a healthy relationship with him.
So welcome home, Queen…
Shaina Richardson
I help women go from single to
engaged to emotionally avaialble men
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Still have questions?
Our team is ready to support you.
Book a free call to speak to Shaina HERE
But the real question is:
Are you ready to step into a love life that feels like an absolute dream? Your extraordinary relationship is waiting – and it starts with saying YES to yourself today!